Persuasion is an umbrella term of influence. Persuasion can attempt to influence a person's beliefs, attitudes, intentions, motivations, or behaviors. In business, persuasion is a process aimed at changing a person's (or a group's) attitude or behavior toward some event, idea, object, or other person(s), by using written or spoken words to convey information, feelings, or reasoning, or a combination thereof. Persuasion is also an often used tool in the pursuit of personal gain, such as election campaigning, giving a sales pitch,or in trial advocacy. Persuasion can also be interpreted as using one's personal or positional resources to change people's behaviors or attitudes. Systematic persuasion is the process through which attitudes or beliefs are changed by appeals to logic and reason.
We all are persuaders in our daily life. A parent is persuading their child to go to school or do the chores etc. A child in other hand is persuading a parent in getting them to buy new stuff and so on we are all persuading each other every time only thing is we do not do it consciously but subconsciously we all are master persuaders.
So i give you some simple tips on consciously be able to persuade in daily life to reach your definite goals.
1) Be nice and Friendly:
This may seem obvious but this is the part where we need to give more conscious attention because small and simple things are the ones that give most impact so be nice and friendly to whom ever you want to persuade this will built a friendly environment for the person to get into you.
2)Enter their world:
Some times what people want is someone just to understand them more so for a while stop thinking about yourself and get into what other people are going through be able to picture yourself in their shoes. That will create a huge bond and inter-connect between two people.
3)Consistency is the key:
This is a major key in influencing some one because people saying one thing and doing another are generally unapproved so learn to keep your word and be consistent.
4)Provide them with undeniable evidence and proof:
Any conversation or a debate can go haywire when the conversation in on baseless stuff so come up with some strong proofs and undeniable evidence to prove your stand this affects the other person of your stand point.
5)Greed is gold:
People can be greedy. Talking about persuasion skill greed is something you use to get people right where you want them to be. This is a powerful key to remember because anyone will get through to get what they want and if your can offer them even a piece of that you are surely going to be approved
6)Use the word "because"
Use the word "because" because master persuaders have defined these clause words to be great when influencing someone as these connect two sentences together that subconsciously
creates a bond between people too.
7)Satisfy their existing needs and wants:
Nothing satisfies you more than you wants and needs being fulfilled so become the part of their present needs and desires and help them accomplish it and they will keep with you forever.
These are some simple Tactics you can follow to persuade people from any walks of life. Hope it was helpful and if you think someone would benefit from this tips feel free to share it with some one you care for.